You have this One Life. How do you wanna spend it ? Apologizing ? Regretting ? Questioning ?Hating Yourself ? Dieting ? Running after people who don’t see you ?
Be Brave. Believe in Yourself.Do what feels Good. Take risks. You have this One Life.Make yourself Proud. Make God Proud.
I read these lines somewhere few years back and they are engraved on my soul for eternity. I wholeheartedly , completely and madly believe in Living for Oneself.
1- Show Them Who You Are
Honey , You gotta show the World what kind of a Hurricane You are. Keep Your Heels, Head, and Standard High. The only reason you should put your head down should be to admire your shoes. You have to show up with your flaws, insecurities, mistakes, scars and everything that makes your heart sad . You are a sum total of your mistakes. Do not be ashamed to accept who you are.
Stay Strong and Roar. A Lion does not concern himself with the opinion of a Sheep. No matter, how Great you are , there will always be someone who does not approve of you. Don’t lose your sleep over someone who does not sees your worth. You can not convince a crawling baby to run. Don’t you dare Cry for someone who left you alone when you were scared and weak?
2- Love Yourself Fiercely
Perhaps we should love ourselves so fiercely that, when others see us, they know exactly how it should be done. ” — Rudy Francisco
Nobody else will love you If you don’t love yourself enough. Everything begins with you. Whatever is happening in your life is a result of the Choices you’ve made. Life is not even happening , it is responding to your own frequency. Stop blaming your Job, Colleague,Parent,Friend even Circumstances for things that went wrong . Take Responsibility for your Life.Write your own Destiny.
3- Seek Respect , not Attention
Do not stay where you are Tolerated but Go where you are Celebrated. Seek for Respect . Never lower your standards for anyone. Wait for Eternity , but never settle for anything less than what you deserve. Walk away from people that do not value you.Do not create Drama to be heard. Respect is Earned. You’ll earn respect when you give it away.
4- Forgive and Move On
I just want to tell you, at some point it doesn’t matter who was right and who was wrong. At some point, being angry is just another bad habit, like smoking, and you keep poisoning yourself without thinking about it.
— Jonathan Tropper, This is Where I Leave YouForgive those who wrong you . The hatred in your heart will consume you too. Bless them and God shall always protect you from all evil eyes. Move on. Do not stay stuck. The Weight of Anger and Hatred on your Soul is too much to bear. Walk Freely without holding on to anything.
5- Keep your Standards High
Stop giving people Discounts. You are worth being Priceless. Never lower your standards for anyone. You are too Classy to create a scene in Public. Walk away from Drama and People who create it. They’ll find another audience .
Walk like a Queen . Talk like a Goddess. Dress like a Diva. Leave your Dent on the Universe.
Shine from Within.Your Eyes reflect your Soul. Let your Good Deeds speak for you. Be so filled with Joy and Positivity that when you enter a dark room , it lights up on its own.
And as I always say , Keep putting out Good , It will come back tenfold in unexpected ways.
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