I, me and Moi are completely against this phenomenon of behaving like socialized, sophisticated and well-mannered Adults who are Monsters in making. Be Yourself. For God Sake, Stay the way you were meant to be. People would hurt you, let them be themselves. Don’t change yourself for any damn thing in this world.Hear me, You are Perfect the way you are. You don’t have to fit in babes.Some of us were born to stand apart
Early Morning , sitting with a cup of Tea , I am left to wonder – It’s easy to love someone when it’s returned but when not , it becomes a tiresome job. Sooner or Later , love vanishes. Love is something that needs to be returned more than what is given. You can’t make people love you. And I learned that some people would never love you , no matter what you do , where as some would never stop loving you , no matter what you do
So , Yes , It has nothing to do with what you are doing to them .Probably what you are making them feel counts more. On Contradictory , they are creating their own feelings and If they have decided to hate you , THEY WILL…all their lives. Stop forcing yourself on them.We have those who will love us even if we slice them into pieces, and those who will hate us even if we feed them pure honey.
Next to the wound , what women make best is the bandage.But some of us rather live with the open wounds all our lives. We re create and re create hurt from that same incident until it overpowers us so much that we start enjoying being in Pain.Some people turn sad awfully young. No special reason, it seems, but they seem almost to be born that way. They bruise easier, tire faster, cry quicker, remember longer.
We should unlearn a lot of things . Few of them are –
1- Nobody cares for you
It’s not True. You are not alone here.Your parents , friends and family , the only thing they wish for is your happiness. You never realize you were in prayers of someone always and forever will be. Stop telling yourself that nobody cares for you. Every damn cell in your body ( there are millions) all they care for is You.
2- There is nothing like True Love
Bullshit ! There is True Love everywhere around you.Let me correct you , there isn’t anything like False love. It’s True always.Love is simple Love.
3- Money makes better friend
It certainly makes more friends but Better ?
4- The World is a Bad Place to live in
Where else do you plan to live ? This World is more like a mirror , you see yourself in others.
5- Divorce is Bad
How about unhappy marriages ? How about bringing up kids together who lose complete faith in love watching their parents fight
Remember , You have to learn to say no without feeling guilty. Setting boundaries is healthy. You need to learn to respect and take care of yourself.There are some people who always seem angry and continually seek out conflict. Walk away; the battle they are fighting is not really with you – it’s with themselves.
Because in the End , It’s between you and God , not between you and Them